Sunday, April 07, 2013

Inside Out

This is the time of life when I start weeding out people who are all take and no give and intend to focus on a few genuine ones for whom I am as important as they are to me. Not tolerating the excuses anymore about forgetting the birthdays, not keeping in touch, and moving on as if the past didn't matter. Have tried hard to keep in touch with each and every one of you, even when you didn't reciprocate coz I thought it doesn't matter. But it does. The one-way traffic is clogging my brain. So, if you are one amongst those, you are out. No ill will towards you, but I am in the driver's seat and this is how it is gonna be. And this is great coz it allows me to do things I want rather than focussing on things I would do for you out of some outdated ideas of friendships and relationships that exist only in my mind.



7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Sorry A
I forgot your bday. I am not sure if I am a weed, I sure hope that I am not

BM

A said...

:) even if i were to turn a recluse tomorrow, you'll not be a weed.

rathchakra said...

i am sure you are careful in your de-weeding.since just as in a garden so in life : some weeds are useful.

A said...

Weeding sounds harsh? Let's call it pruning.

rathchakra said...

no it doesn't. some weeds are best uprooted and discarded entirely. just that need to be judicious in knowing which is which, and that you are :P

A said...

If I am, why are you even commenting?

rathchakra said...

consider it as a PSA for other readers of this blog